No, not my husband. He's a different kind of soulmate. The kind I get to get dirty with. Which is kind of confusing, since I got dirty with my other kind of soulmate this weekend at the Warrior Dash. But I'm talking about different dirties and different soulmates here people. Keep up, FFS!
So anyhoo, my hubs and I are soulmates in the doin'-it-like-bunnies sense. I started to type out thar the is my soulmate in the romantic sense, but we are less romantic and more smart-assed, so that didn't sound right.
But let's talk about my other soulmate. The hubs actually dubbed her as my soulmate, so I don't feel bad about this.
Have you ever read Anne of Green Gables by Lucy Maude Montgomery? Well, if you haven't, the rest of this may not make any sense at all. And you should go check that book out from the library. Seriously. Go do it right now. It's one of the best books ever, and it has a big giant place in my childhood and heart. I have read that book and seen the PBS movies MANY times. It's the only book I can think of where the movie version didn't suck donkey balls. In fact, I read the book not too long ago, because I had given a copy to my oldest niece for Christmas, and it reminded me how much I wanted to read it again.
|Go read this book. NOW.|
So, in this book, a young orphan named Anne (spelled with an E, thankyouverymuch) comes to live with an unlikely couple of folks, thru an unusual set of circumstances. Her neighbor across the way, Diana, is a girl her age, but very much (physically) unlike her. They meet and instantly become fast, lifelong friends. Anne refers to herself and Diana as kindred spirits. They knew right away that they were meant to be friends. And they remained friends forever.
I knew instantly that Bobbi Jo and I were going to be best buds. We just clicked. And of course, I, the nerdy bookworm, thought of Anne of Green Gables and her kindred spirit Diana. I just couldn't help but think of how Bobbi Jo is my kindred spirit, because we share so many interests, and she is just easy to be with. As I was trying to relate this to my hubby one day, he was giving me this confused look, because as a dude, he did not grow up reading Anne of Green Gables. In fact *gasp* he had never even heard of it. Sinner. Anyhoo... he started referring to Bobbi Jo as my soulmate after I gave him this long drawn out description of her being my kindred spirit.
So after all of that, I wanted to talk about how she has inspired me lately. She is fabulous. And I love being in her presence, because I feel normal and less weird than usual. We both like to run, we both used to be much heavier, we both like to read, we are both crazy about NFL football, and we just like the same stuff. We laugh at the same stuff. We married guys who are scarily similar. And here's the kicker... I "met" her online. On a running forum. And the first time I met her for reals, it was like we'd been besties since childhood. We've now been to each others' homes for long weekends, done a few races together, and we text, email, and facebook all the time. At the risk of sounding like a total stalker, she's just fucking fabulous. And I want to make her stuff like friendship bracelets and inspirational flat rocks. I'm not sure what's wrong with me.
|Wonder what the hell I was talking about? Tada. Inspirational Flat Rocks.|
I can do that. Why can't I? I don't have kids, I have the time. And investing time in ME, with nourishing real foods is an investment that will pay back a billion times over. So I'm going to take a page out of my soulmate's book, and work on taking more time to cook nourishing, healthy meals for myself and my hubby. Tonight I marinated and grilled chicken breasts, steamed edamame, and baked some potatoes. Nothing crazy or gourmet, but nourishing, fresh, healthy, and tasty.
What a concept.